From childhood onwards females are encouraged into subservient roles so that taking the lead can feel strange and unnatural even ampquotunfeminineampquot and ampquotnot niceampquot. We are discouraged from aggressively grabbing what we want and instead encouraged to sacrifice and nurture. We are taught to be prizes not competitors. Surely there has to be more to life than that. Many men the ones who value assertiveness and even a little cruelty in their female lovers would agree. So would many women. If youamp39re one of these women or if your man is one of those men then this book could be just what you and he have been searching for.Chapter List An Introduction for the Hesitant Mistress Guidance on the Workbook Sections Boons Quests and Tasks Erotic Punishment Ritual and RolePlay Orgasm Control Ten Basic Rules ampnbsp