A revolutionary reexamination of traumas role in the life journey opening the door to growth and healing Trauma does not just happen to a few unlucky people it is the bedrock of our psychology. Death and illness touch us all but even the everyday sufferings of loneliness and fear are traumatic. In The Trauma of Everyday Life renowned psychiatrist and author of Thoughts Without a Thinker Mark Epstein uncovers the transformational potential of trauma revealing how it can be used for the minds own development. Western psychology teaches that if we understand the cause of trauma we might move past it while many drawn to Eastern practices see meditation as a means of rising above or distancing themselves from their most difficult emotions. Both Epstein argues fail to recognize that trauma is an indivisible part of life and can be used as a lever for growth and an ever deeper understanding of change. When we regard trauma with this perspective understanding that suffering is universal and without logic our pain connects us to the world on a more fundamental level. The way out of pain is through it. Epsteins discovery begins in his analysis of the life of Buddha looking to how the death of his mother informed his path and teachings. The Buddhas spiritual journey can be read as an expression of primitive agony grounded in childhood trauma. Yet the Buddhas story is only one of many in The Trauma of Everyday Life. Here Epstein looks to his own experience that of his patients and of the many fellow sojourners and teachers he encounters as a psychiatrist and Buddhist. They are alike only in that they share in trauma large and small as all of us do. Epstein finds throughout that trauma if it doesnt destroy us wakes us up to both our minds own capacity and to the suffering of others. It makes us more human caring and wise. It can be our greatest teacher our freedom itself and it is available to all of us. Check out Epsteins latest book Advice Not Given A Guide to Getting Over You